You need to make goals about YOU NOT HER!

Make 3 goals that have NOTHING to do with her.......

A goal of being included in a family activity is really reaching and not where your focus should be right now.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction