H went out and partied for st pattys last night. Came home late snoring on the couch. When I left I noticed my house key missing tho I think it is almost impossible he would have taken it considering purse has been on me or near me for limited time we've been in house together. But I woke him up and asked him anyway. There was a brief exchange where he said how'd you lose your key and I answered, it's not on the chain. "That wasn't the question." I ignored that. But it is typical of him, the controlling way he tries to order me through conversations. I just told him I was borrowing his to make a copy. He looked theatrically tired and what not like he's just recovered from a hard day of battle. I left without saying goodbye.
I am growing angry at how he keeps avoiding me, this.
Is it appropriate to tell our friends and family what is going on? I don't believe in drawing others into drama but I don't believe this should be silent between us, either. We will see tonight how he handles.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on