So here's a quick question for you all, we are a one car family. Currently she is taking the car when I have the kids to drive to OM place every weekend. I don't particularly need the car and can cope as I can borrow my mums car as and when needed, but it does make life slightly trickier and I hate the lack of independence it creates. Should I put my foot down about her taking the family car with her at weekends? Am I being too soft letting her take it or would I just be argumentative asking her to leave it. I know its a crappy journey to try and make by train and it might just force him into dropping her off or collecting her. Something I want to avoid as I want him a million miles away from the family home....

So should I ask for the car to be left with the house or not? Thoughts please...


T:13 yrs M:11
Me: 36
Her: 33
Living apart
Her having affair
She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015
3 kids D13 S10 D10
D not mentioned yet