So found out through mutual friend that H bought a new house (also heard he was looking through D14). so he gets to happily move on -- has his great career that I made possible for him, his own home in a good neighborhood in the midst of all our friends, a new young girlfriend, fancy new clothes and haircut, dog, etc.
Me? I get to sell all my belongings and move in with my parents in the small town I vowed never to return to. But I'll get my daughter 70% of the time, and I'll also have something that he won't that's more important than anything: her respect.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!