Pink

the only way I can make sense of these WS, why say "yes let's piece" and then the next moment "OP" is that the OPs are playing yo-yo with WS. This hurts and it is human behaviour at its most unpleasant.

I have a friend whose H fell in love with her Bestie, no matter what Bestie did to put him off H would not stop the chase. In the end Bestie cut all ties with my friend because it was the only way to get the infatuation stopped. After 3 years the friends met for coffee, the chase by H lasted two years before it stopped. bestie says she never responded at all, changed her phone, blocked Facebook and had the house calls blocked. That is best behaviour by a Friend in this position. The two women spa occasionally but will never be Besties again. The couple are still together and in MC.

This particular brand of OP in your case is distasteful to say the least.

This is a daisy chain of pain OP-WS-LBS-children. All caused by this infatuation with OP. By breaking the chain between WS and LBS with this style of OP the affair will die as the reward in yo yo has gone for the OP. They are no longer getting their reward from inflicting pain on the LBS. The power is finished "there OP, you wanted WS, you got WS, I am off to GAL. Bye"

Once WS is cut free from LBS and the affair with OP ceases, WS is isolated then they either find a new OP/gf or consider returning to the LBS. If the affair with OP restarts then the chain starts again. I have heard this referred to as plan B with LBS. Some OPs do this to-yo for ego boosting of themselves, especially if they have an R, and after this seem to seek another WS. I had one of these in my life I called her the Fish Wife, this joyous specimen looks to be a twin sister to the Mille Feuille (french tart) in your sitch.

It is very hurtful and painful for you, Pink believe nothing of that which H says and only 50% of what he does (Sandi guidelines). I have reduced that to 10%. When and if H wants back in and when and if you decide to piece, this place of hurt and loneliness will be a bad memory to be forgotten.

Pink, I will project my special care to you today.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/18/15 10:15 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW