Well... 1) I'd rather not switch insurance providers unless I begin working that offers insurance. Prefer to stay away from national healthcare if possible.
2) I have let him know that the divorce is just going to have to wait. I know that hanging on is stressful but I'm just confused about what to do. Let him off the hook.It may not be that ez. I hope to talk to my lawyer soon depending how my treatment is progressing.
3) He continues to visit his children and only missed one time because he had the flu. He knows that it would make him "look bad (worse)" if he misses his visitations. His previous atty from his other child support case had told him that if he misses visits then the mother can request more money. Remember it's about him.. and his reputation.
4)The in laws have known about the cancer and my new treatment. No phone calls or visits from them or my H. They don't care though they say they "pray" for me everyday. Hmmm. Doesn't matter.
5) I know these trials are temporary but feel like forever.
As I mentioned, I am so disappointed and hurt. THis MLC'er is unbelievable. His family is unbelievable.
I will fight for my health, my children and everything I can. This is just so sad for all involved. They (H and his family and OW) really aren't thinking clearly.
Thank you all for your amazing support, love, thoughts, and prayers. You don't know how much this forum helps. Y'all are such a blessing!
All will be well. I believe Jeremiah 29:11.. The Lord has a plan for good.... Prayers for all.
