You do realize that MLC can last for years right? No joking. My ex is still in his fog, doesn't get how his actions affected everyone. It has been nearly nine years since the earth opened up and swallowed me whole.

This is something she has to do. You can't speed it up,do it for her or help. She will have to hit rock bottom before anything gets better. Mostly she probably doesn't even realize she is a mess.. This is not for the faint of heart.

Something to consider, would you be wiling to wait for 9 years? Would you start living your life or just play the waiting game?

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory