Got myself updated on your sitch and I think it's so great all what is happening. Of course it's frightening, another turmoil to go through you want or not.
I have my fingers crossed for a chance that your H will at least start talking.
I am also amazed with your strength, every word I read feels like you are calm and in control of all your emotions. You are a model for me, being all over the place lately.
I hope your H can feel and see what we know, that you are a great woman, strong and smart. Keep going Toots, you are doing great and with patience you will be always in a better place.
I also agree that you may get a maybe or even no word for awhile, your H is still with a lot of doubts. He knows you got stronger and kept yourself out of his way. During this time, life did not get better, so he may think that his problems weren't exactly you, but maybe himself.
I would guess it takes time to figure that we are the one with the problem and it problem takes a lot of more time and courage to face this problems and be humble enough to admit you are wrong, so your H may have his brain boiling asking himself what direction to take.
You are a wise woman, give him time to digest his own crisis.
Keep strong Toots, you have a long way ahead of you.
