You sound much better than before. Sorry to hear about the tension between you and your W. It just makes me feel sick knowing there are kids involved.
They are the most important thing on earth. And even if we don't see changes in them right away, they are smart and absorb everythjng. And it's changing them.
For them: be the best alpha you can possibly be! Take the high road and be a great example of a father to them. I know you are smile
Keep your head high!

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15