Thanks again Caliguy! That definitely helps put things into perspective on how a timeline of the healing process develops.

So I mentioned my IC wanted me to not follow the LRT so rigorously, and that he wanted me to try to reason out in authentic ways.

Could it be it takes SO long to heal because most people LRT until the spouse is ready and things don't move along?

Me:33 W:34
T:13 M:8.5
D mentioned & S 2/13/15
"We can never get back together" 4/2/15
Visited & Mentioned she hasn't filed 4/20/15
"I want to have cats back" 5/4/15
Served D papers 5/8/15