I have met/teleponed with my attorney and gone over several strategies.
The first is to get rid of the mediators altogether. He will send them a letter along with one to my WAW.
He will then file the motions on my behalf - I will go to the court house with him.
My WAW will be angry as hell and will be surprised but I'm sorry for that. This is what I have to do to protect myself and my kids.
Please keep me in your prayers and your fingers crossed.
This is what I would call a Hail Mary pass.
I pledge to be respectful, empatheic and kind throughout the process and we will see what happens. At any time we can pull this and negotiate/mediate ourselves.