I too am impressed with your GAL Jim! Good for you with the Ceroc and the socialising with work mates.

I also think you have a good perspective in terms of your W. As you say, right now she is gone. But, as for any of us - who knows in the longer term. But I think moving forward with our own lives is the right thing to do.

I love feeding the ducks! My flat overlooks an ancient pool that has ducks and geese on. Some days I go down and visit them. I've found out that bread isn't great for them, so my ducks get halved grapes and peas too. I want to get some special duck food for them. Of course when I go, it's normally me and a couple of three year olds feeding them!

Glad to hear you sounding so good Jim. I always appreciate your wise words on the forum.....((Jim))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus