Phun, don't file for divorce unless it is truly what you want and you truly feel you are done. If you don't feel that, and you don't want to live in an open marriage, why not S for now and give yourself some time.
It is still pretty early days for you guys you know....I think (however things turn out) it is best if we can look back and see that we did all we could to save our M's.
I'm suppose this what Sandi is sort of asking me too. What am I doing for me in this sitch instead of what she wants? The answer is I don't know. I'm taking care of myself but lately I feel pressure from many places to do something including myself. I suppose I need to pray and think on this more.
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15
