One example exchange from this evening. W phoned:

W: hi, can you bring me the big TV and blu ray player?
M: err what, when do you want that, now, or tomorrow? What do you mean?
W: oh it doesn't matter.
M: I just mean I don't know when you want me to bring it.
W: well, now if you can.
M: ok. If I bring them up soon then would it be OK to see the kids for a bit? How are they?
W: oh I don't have to meet your demands. You can't demand you'll see the kids whenever you want. Forget it. I'll just buy a new TV.
M: It wasn't a demand, it was just a question. I haven't seen the kids and I miss them.
W: well I don't think it's fair that you won't give me the TV and you get all the stuff. Ive got a lot to pay for and you're keeping everything. We're going to have to go through the courts over the stuff aren't we?
M: what? Who said that? We've said we'll split the stuff. I've just said I'll bring the TV. I just asked about seeing the kids.
W: not now, I'm so angry. Oh now you're saying I can have the TV.

Conversation reaches conclusion with her saying she'll be home in a bit.

Yes, I've got emotional, I've said stupid, angry things on occasion (mainly last few days) but this incoherent babble from W is hard to deal with. Thankfully I was calm, didn't get angry, and dealt with it in the best way I could. I think I did a good job. At least I hope I did.

Last edited by alpha99; 03/17/15 08:04 PM.

BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6