Need Help 2

[errod]

Well after talking to my attorney today and having some old friends call me because, I am not with my W who they hated, I am ready to move on with my life.

Yes I still love her and I would still reconcile with her, but I will not be a doormat to get her. I always thought because she was the successful one that everyone would side with her and I would be some type of oddity. But I have people coming from all over reaching out to me. Yes she has Grandpa her old man boyfriend but so be it.

I took down all the pictures of us and took off my wedding ring. D14 came home and smiled and said I am so proud of you. She is not worth the pain she has put you through. I told her, I am going on with life because I need to, but I do still love my W and am not closing any doors for good.

I have not spoken to W all day first time that has ever happened. We are still going to dinner tonight even though D14 said she doesn't want to because I have to keep things amicable because I am going to have D14 the rest of the week.

I found the evidence I was looking for that W was having an A and I know some on here say not to look, but I needed it for closure. But I guess legally it wasn't an affair because she already filed for divorce before ever talking to him. I think I would still be sitting here like a doormat if I didn't know. Now she would have to earn me back.