I'm on the side of following up on your text. After all you asked her to accompany you to a specific place on a specific day, so to not follow up seems a bit passive and unassertive. I mean don't you at least deserve a yes or no response. It seems to me a reasonable request. So a follow-up could simply be "Hey have you thought about taking me up on my offer for Sunday?" Your time is valuable and to leave you hanging without acknowledging the request seems rude to me. I think it will also set the tone for any relationship that may develop - it will be one where she knows that if Wii asks about something he expects an answer back. JMHO and 2 cents.
Good advice BA! She texted me this afternoon "Hi, how are you? Sorry, I couldn't talk last night I was very busy" So, we shall see what happens with Sunday. I think you're absolutely right, BA.
Well, I grew a set BA lol. I just asked her whether she'd thought about Sunday yet and she replied right away. I'm not sure cuz I have my pt job on Sundays...don't know whether I'm working or not yet. I might be able to come." so I said "let me know when you can. I think we'll have fun. I'd love to show you the city I grew up in!" she said "I'll let you know as soon as I can" She has a cleaning job on some Sunday afternoons for extra cash. So, as always, we shall see.
Well you got an answer, so she isn't simply ignoring you. It's a fine line to not press too much. She needs to make the decision to go on her own and not feel pressured into it - besides you WANT her to WANT to go with you.
