Devotion To A Dream 3

[phunguy]

I knew that's what you would say, but I was referring to your preference between S or D, b/c of your continuance to talk about what "she" wanted.

Am I that predictable? lol I mean look I get it, I am clinging to this hope in desperation, I know that she's done and I cannot force her to stay in this marriage, it makes me feel pathetic that I cannot just accept this. This morning I have told the attorney to proceed with D. I am not getting what I wanted but I suppose this is a tunnel with no cheese and I recognize it as such.

Last night really helped me make the decision. I told her that I was proceeding with D this week. That I would have the attorney draw up the paperwork and we could go file it. We discussed a number of things that we had already discussed. Parenting plan, splitting of the house and debts, no support, no alimony, who would retain decision making for the kids(me). She agreed to all of it.