W coming within the hour to get her stuff with FIL. Any advice on how to deal with this?

She's very angry at the moment. Won't let me see kids cos she doesn't trust me after yesterday.

BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6