VGE - Job is absolutely correct. Please, please treat this battle as a business negotiation. Get your attorney to act swiftly to preserve your rights, document everything you can in writing. Keep a journal with dates and events. Work with your counselor and get them in your corner. If you can show the counselor your focus is on your children and your health that shouldn't be an issue.

This is a battle and the only way to defeat the evil in your family is to attack it methodically and with everything you've got. Right now you must be organized and businesslike to accomplish your goals. This is critical VGE. Prayer always has a place but God needs you to take charge and show him you will fight and be resolute.

The emotions can be dealt with after you've done everything you can to survive this situation with your children. Do not doubt yourself and do not depend on your husband to be reasonable.

Be strong and be fierce. You can do this VGE


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou