When we respond to things we're coming from wherever we are. I try not to take responses personally, even if it was meant to be snarky, it's all good. Hope that makes sense.
raliced's idea is worth considering. Don't let your anger with him get in the way of something that might be beneficial to you and the kids. Take some time to think about it.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss