Lol Cadet, fair point! I was just trying to apologise for not listening before.

OK I will go through DB101 and re-read DR.

I think I finally have my mind ready and open. Perhaps I needed to really hit rock bottom to be free from the fear of losing her..

So you don't think it's too late?

T:13 yrs M:11
Me: 36
Her: 33
Living apart
Her having affair
She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015
3 kids D13 S10 D10
D not mentioned yet