My WW and I have our first divorce mediation tomorrow night. We interviewed 3 different mediators and settled on this certain guy. He was warm, personable and very caring. One thing that he said that stuck out to me is that 30% of the people who go see him, end up calling the divorce off. Anyone have any experience with this? He also told us that he usually charged around 3K up front from point A to point B, but with us he will only charge us his normal hourly rate plus fee's(which will be equal to 3K), to be paid at each session, because he does not believe we will go through with it and doesn't want us to shell out 3K when there is a chance for reconciliation.
Does anyone know of anyone who reconciled through mediation? What should I really expect to happen there? We are currently separated and she is dating other people. But we see one another almost daily (due to kids schedule).
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016