My Man we have all been there. When I don't have the kids I struggle with motivation in the morning, I have already gone through a drinking phase, and honestly for awhile I wasn't really sure that I would be okay.

But I will be, and so will you. You will be just fine. You have found this board. You have worked hard, taking a proactive approach to work through mental baggage.

My X and I moved 4 hrs from our jobs, designed and built a house, and had two kids here in my hometown and next to her hometown. Years later bring us to the bomb drop and her leaving. Similar to your life and story, this house is something similar to an emotional prison, which I deal with daily. But the trials and tribulations we go through make us stronger, if dealt with appropriately. Continue to march to the beat of your own drum, continue to be truthful to yourself and be the responsible Father and Dad to your wonderful boy, and you will be alright. If willing, we all have the life we want, own your life!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015