Well I got up and went to the gym. I have not heard from W since dropping off D14 yesterday at 5. That is a long stretch.
When detaching does the WAW sometimes take a step back before taking a step forward. I know I am expecting way quicker results than are realistic, but yesterday she texted me all day and came running out when I dropped D14 off. But then she said to D14 something is strange about the way I am acting and why am I so happy.
Suspected OM is her 12:30 appointment today. I can find an excuse to go to the office at that time, but I run the risk of her reading between the lines and flipping out at me.
In my heart I want to save my marriage but by fighting her to extend it by not agreeing to the divorce and making them base it off a 1 year separation (which would be next January) do I run the risk of making her mad and closing the door.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15
