Good for you, Maybell. Being able to see yourself clearly is just one of the positive outcomes that can come from an otherwise $hitty situation. I too was married to a hologram who liked the "credibility" of the marriage and family life, without putting any work into it. I can see that clearly now. Why didn't I ever see it before?
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!