FWIW, unless you are clear in your own mind that you truly want to move on, S might be best. Gives you both some time to process things without yet moving to D. Why D is it's not what you want?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus