I read some of your posts when it was on newcomers. I recall that it caught my attention because he was taking a lot of oxy at that time. But then it seemed like it became a non issue because it wasn't really mentioned anymore.

Where is he with this? Is he still on oxy? This is just my observation and you can take it or leave it...

But it seems like he is manipulating you. The I'm sorrys... The I think I have a mental illness.. It seems like he has been saying all sorts of things to appease (not quite the word I'm looking for but it'll do) you.. To keep you in the game.. To make himself the victim.. And when that doesn't work, the it's.. You always make me feel this.. You are the horrible person..

I am not speaking from personal experience in my relationship but as a pattern in pts I have cared for.

Are you actually in piecing? Or are you trying to patch together your marriage and he is going along to keep you "happy"? I don't know the answer. I'm just asking a hard question.


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11