He's said things like "he doesn't see a married future for us". We have a mediator-- we've met with her a few times and worked out a parenting agreement (which he doesn't even think we need because we can work things out 'ad hoc'.). He now says we should sign the draft parenting agreement and move to lawyers to work out the financial settlement, because he doesn't see how mediation will help with that, and he doesn't understand how a neutral financial advisor will help, either, because she's not a lawyer.
