I got home half an hour ago.
Greeted by cold silence. Very reminiscent of the period before we separated.
So I took a shower and when I got out, asked, "when would you like to discuss this?"

"another day."

"Would I be able to have the bedroom tonight?"

And then he exited to the living room.

So, the fight or flight arousal is dying down now.
I guess this means he has nothing he wishes to apologize for. Fine.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.