I got home half an hour ago. Greeted by cold silence. Very reminiscent of the period before we separated. So I took a shower and when I got out, asked, "when would you like to discuss this?"
"another day."
"Would I be able to have the bedroom tonight?"
And then he exited to the living room.
So, the fight or flight arousal is dying down now. I guess this means he has nothing he wishes to apologize for. Fine.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on