Well going on my 4th year after BD. Time really does fly. My D turned 18 in December. She dropped out of the 9th grade and is home doing nothing. She said she will attend our community college in September get her high school degree and go to college. I dont question her. Just give her kuddos now and offer support. Hoping she follows through. I havent seen heard from exw since 10/12. My GF told me that 2 weeks ago exw sent her 2 FB friend request. That is all I know.
I feel pretty good. Hard to believe I would make it. I feel for new comers.
I lost my job of 10 years March 2013. It had great perks. My new job is ok. My direct supervisor is a passive/aggresive control freak bully. So 2 months ago I had to confront the bully. I bit of my old self came back. If u dont know me from before I was a cocky go f urself kinda of dude. For the last year and some months she walked all over me. I just took it. The D really messed me up. The fear. ..how I hate fear.
Things at work are not good. But I can deal. The excutive director likes me. That is all that matters.
Financially im paying my bills. Not in debt. But things are tighter.
And we are getting married April 23th. I got cold feet/hands/neck/and u know. We were supposed to get married this Friday.
That is it. Live life, let go and give urself to the universe.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
