I prefer none of this. I prefer we get counseling and work to over come the issues we have. That is not an option today because she refuses that option. So now I must choose S or D. I believe I want D. I'm not ready to accept this situation for some reason, probably because I see it as failure(my type A doesn't recognize failure as an option), though I know I must accept that we both failed. Something makes me think that with S there is still hope but I keep asking myself why I cannot drop the rope and set me free. It's causing me great anguish. Love stinks.
Last edited by phunguy; 03/17/1512:36 AM.
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15
