Even if it is a scam, W in MLC-mode would never listen to my concerns anyway (since I'm the cause of her unhappiness and the enemy, right?)... So if it is a scam, then there is nothing I can do about it except let her believe what she wants to believe about OW and learn this lesson the hard way.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015