jim00987! I'm so glad to see you around. You haven't updated us on your sitch in over two weeks and in fact your thread is locked. Will you start a new one? I have questions for you, but I'll keep them for your thread.

I kind of agree that I'm borrowing trouble from the future by asking if I can ever trust my W again. It's not like it's an immediate concern. I probably do it because I have trouble detaching and taking my focus away from her. If I come to the conclusion that I can't trust her, then I'll move on for good. But it seems like her attitude in any reconciliation attempt would make a whole difference, and that I can't know until it happens. So I should probably rest it.

On the GAL, honestly I have next to no plans when I don't have the kids. Tonight, I'm having dinner with a friend, Wednesday I'm playing badminton and Thursday I might see another friend. But I'm not volunteering anywhere, I'm not taking regular classes, I haven't joined any kind of group, etc.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.