Its interesting that your thinking about whether you could trust your wife again after all of this. Its an important line of thinking but it may also be 'borrowing trouble from tomorrow'
That sounds like an interesting book. I've also found that there is a lot of common ground about being true to yourself and to live your life as best you can, the rest will take care of itself. Not sure if thats too much expectation but it seems like a good principle
Just looking at your GAL report and am curious what sort of GAL plans do you have that involve a more social aspect?
Anyway hope your doing well
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress