Hi Frank - there's truly no offence intended here. But I would guess that most sensible women would give you and your sitch a wide berth right now. I think Susana is spot on, and your time may be best spent working through things, understanding yourself better, and moving forwards/healing alone.

It sounds like early days to think about dating - and probably isn't a healthy move - IMHO.

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