Need Help 2

[errod]

So last night I did something I shouldn't of but it made me feel better. W said she was out with that girlfriend again. So I went for a ride by the girls house and she was home and W was not there, so obviously she was with a man.

So at that point I came home and D14 and I were hanging out and watching movies. So I took a picture of D14 and I laughing and having a good time and sent it to W. Saying family fun night hope you are having fun.

W did her new thing of not reading my text until the morning like she does now she won't answer even read my messages after like 7:00. At 6:00 this morning she texted me good morning and asked if I can come to the office this afternoon and teach her how to run checks. I never answered her. Then at 10:30 she texted me are we still going out to dinner tomorrow night. And did I call our accountant which I did. She said the accountant called her and told her what to be careful of tax wise if she goes through with the D.

She then texted me again saying how busy she was today. Then brought up the check scanner thing again. Saying am I going to help her or does she have to call the bank. I told her I will be there at some point when I have time.

In that time period D14 texts me asking if I can take her out after school. I told her it is her mothers night. She said but she rather me take her. So I texted W saying that D14 and I are going out after school and I will drop her off when we are finished. D14 has been telling me she wants to stay with me. She says she never thought her mom would tear apart are family without a good reason and she doesn't want to be around her.

W then kept trying to text me for small talk and I finally told her I have a job now and I need to work. I can't just talk to you all day. I did get two listings from a friend who is a property investor for $500,000 in property in my first day.

So yes I still love my wife and yes I am not giving up yet. But I have to say she is really hurting me.

So one other thing that happened last night was when D14 was asking me why I won't give up on mommy and I told I love her and have 19 years with her and I can't just throw it away. She said mommy said she has hated you since July, so you must really love her or be crazy. I said it is funny she says that stuff to you and I showed her emails from January where W was telling me she loved me and missed me.

Tomorrow I meet with my attorney and looking at the laws online I may be able to extend this thing for like 9 more months. I also am going to keep myself busy and not contact W first. We are going out to dinner as a family but I don't see that as a bad thing. It isn't really a date, it is just the 3 of us hanging out before, D14 and I go away for the rest of the week. W says she is coming down for the weekend but she will get her own room. I did not give a response.

I feel much better and controlled today but I just have to see where it goes with her and this guy she is dating. W is very hard to get along with and she can't keep friends or anything for more then a month.

D14 told me last night that mommy always told her to do well in school so she can marry for looks and not have to rely on a man. But now she is dating Grandpa, because he has money.