Trying to Follow DB & DR

[Miman2]

Thanks Toots! That's more or less how I feel about it too.

On the one hand I have people telling me I need to protect me and mine, secure my home by changing locks and get my money into my own account that she doesn't have access too.

On the the other hand I feel like those are both "I've lost trust in you" moves that makes reconciliation all the harder.

So far she hasn't done anything too crazy with regards to money/property. So I keep chugging along, keeping the faith, praying and hoping I/We can get through this.