I'm so glad you came back around and posted an update. I'm so glad that your son wants the two of you to live together. He missed you and your support. I'm sorry about your S21. What's with a cabin in the driveway? That's awful! Well, at least your sons now know where they stand w/their father while he's out to lunch.
Well, this certainly looks like things didn't turn out the way that he thought they would. LOL! He's certainly not living the life of Riley and it's going to take a while before he realizes that he had it so much better before.
Until then, on the Chapter 3 and a good life for you and your sons.
Travel safely!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.