Hi Edz. No waffle there mate , just your feelings. You obviously love your W. Edz can continue to improve , continue to detach and continue becoming a fantastic dad. Leave W to her own thoughts and see what happens. I was with a girl for four years when I was younger. Mthis love of my life. We split up , I was devastated and met W 4 months later( while not looking ) through a friends friend and 24 years of happiness. Life can change in a heartbeat. I read all your posts and your doing much better than you think Edz is becoming a man only a fool would leave and if W is a fool then so be it. Edz will come through and be happy again Carry on standing for as long as Edz wants to. If. W decides no more in a few months then Edz knows he tried everything and didn't get the outcome he wished for but he know a vastly improved Edz.
Stay strong mate. For me your doing great. Let W come to you. Only she knows when she's ready. Take care. Rd