Me three. But yesterday I decided there was something I want to do on one of my weekends with the kids, so I said "I'm going to this. Do you want them or shall I get a sitter?" It felt strong to just announce a plan.
Of course he's going to push his decision to the last minute (I gave him a deadline of five days before my plan). But at least I laid out my space.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15