It's so hard to watch you child sit and do nothing. With my daughter we made her give us an agenda of what she was planning to do each week to get a job and the next week she would review with us what she had done...she hated it but as I told her "your job is to get a job"! She works at American Eagle now and her hours vary but at least she's doing something. She's also been accepted to a college program for September. Good luck, Mish...it ain't easy! Great news about you and Gabe...awesome to feel the love, isn't it