Is there anyone here who would say this could be a one-time thing and maybe it's not worth walking out of our M over?
We'd been dating about six months when he pushed me off at a dock at a friend's party, 'playful' but definitely aggressive over a jealousy thing. He apologized then that he should have never gone that far, and I'd broke up with him then. There were a couple of years where he'd punch walls, slam things, throw things before he agreed that was also violent and not excusable behavior. And then it just wasn't a problem again. Until now.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
