Thank you cat. I can see your point. I have already been tested this morning. My wife went off on me in a text for allowing the kids to stay up to late last night. It actually was the same time they always go to bed, but D decided to stay up later and now is to tired for school. I validated her point. And she was right in what she said. Even though D stayed up on her own, I am the parent and need to do a better job with this. In the past I would have argued with wife, and become defensive. But I agreed with her and acknowledged my mistake. I really do appreciate your input cat. This is the stuff I struggle with.
The cell phone thing was really for myself. I was tired of never being able to log on to our account because wife was changing password all the time and not giving me the correct one. I feel good having my own. I also did it to protect myself. I use my phone for work alot. She acted like she did not want to be in the marriage anymore and I think she is talking to someone else. I did it for me. Her reaction was all her's.
As far as her job is concerned, I am just going with the flow. I am going to keep doing my thing and pray that she makes a decision sometime. My younger children finding out is one of my fears. The other is the danger in this work. She claims the company is very protected from hackers. But there is always that chance. To me my families safety is not worth taking that chance. There has already been all kinds of stealing going on from employees, one was a manager and stole thousands. My wife sometimes doesn't think about what could happen. Thank you for your insight cat. I will be asking for more advice as I go in this journey. I think you would be proud of me and how I handled things this morning
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I can see your point. I have already been tested this morning. My wife went off on me in a text for allowing the kids to stay up to late last night. It actually was the same time they always go to bed, but D decided to stay up later and now is to tired for school. I validated her point. And she was right in what she said. Even though D stayed up on her own, I am the parent and need to do a better job with this. In the past I would have argued with wife, and become defensive. But I agreed with her and acknowledged my mistake. I really do appreciate your input cat. This is the stuff I struggle with. 