I find this line particularly frightening -- "My H is about the size of an NBA player, and he was standing there just vibrating with rage, fists clench on either side of my head. "
Sorry, I'm not entirely sure how to visualise this. Were his hands right next to your head like he was about to hit/punch you?
You need to protect yourself and keep yourself out of any dangerous situation, that's no 1 priority.
Depression, laziness (if he really is depressed I don't think it is willful laziness btw), even threatening to leave - one thing. Getting violent - that's completely another.
If you believe there's a chance of you getting hurt, you cannot go back there.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
