Awwww.....thanks, guys, for remembering about The Conversation today. Last night I was talking to a friend of mine who was M and D within a couple of years in his 20s, no kids. He asked why I was willing to drag things out 6 more months, why not just take the legal plunge and get it over with? He couldn't understand how entwined my life is with H's, how six months is not very long to untangle 27 years of life together. I'd prefer the time to make it a gentler process, not that it will be fun no matter how it plays out, but there's no need to deliberately make it hard if we don't have to. I just have no idea what H will say. My intention is to ask some questions that are important to me, listen to see what H has to say, and then ask for what I want.

My GAL has been rocking for sure. wink Blues Fest Thursday, ghost hunting Friday, movie Saturday, all with new friends. Yesterday was church and a special reception honoring my years of ministry at the church, it was lovely. It was a low key afternoon and dinner with D17. Tonight I have Heat tickets.

I'll pop in this afternoon and give a rundown of the lunch conversation.


"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"