I hear from Ace that W also got a new job, which W didn't bother mentioning to me at all. It seems she's trying not so much to divorce me as to erase my existence from her mind altogether.
This is what WAWs do. You need to read up on Sandis LBH thread, many things will resonate with you and it will be very enlightening. All of our situations are balancing acts, the more we put in, the less the other person has to put in. Part of what works about detaching is that we stop putting ourselves and over time we become pursued by the WAW. This takes great effort. It is very difficult. And it doesn't happen overnight.
I'm confident you can do it. You have a whole world of people and knowledge at your fingertips. Your situation isn't all that unique many of us have a WAW to deal with. We are here for you eclipse!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
