You are not stalling. You are GAL and becoming someone only a fool would leave. Which means getting a job, and some outside interests. And probably working on changing your mentality and outlook a bit. I mean, I know this sounds harsh, but does "sad panda" sound like an attractive man to you? The man you'd have to be a fool to leave? Mindsets need not be fixed. Read Carol Dweck, about growth mindset and see if you can change your vision and image of yourself. ..
