Sorry your feeling low at the moment. Wish there was something I could do.
Your in the eye of the storm, its calm now but all around you can see big waves and strong winds caused by the maelstrom your wife's emotions are in. She's probably feeling a whole mixture of pain and loss and fear. Your seeing the storm and you know at some point it will hit but you don't know when.
At some point she will move and you'll hit the eyewall and get caught up in it all, but you've got to navigate yourself safely through to the other side. you could wait or you could move and choose both timing and direction.
There ain't no way out but through.
It feels like your worry is getting to you rather than the circumstances themselves as in that sense you are still where you were. What can you do to let go of the worry?
Where do you want to go? And what can you do to prep for / start that journey?
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
