Hi OD...a couple of amends from me:

I found these (sexually explicit cards) in our bedroom the last time I was home.

They caused me great distress, and as I had the children for the weekend it was extraordinarily difficult for me.

I want you to remove them, and any other items relating to your affair, from our home immediately.

It isn't appropriate for you to bring them into our family home, and shows a lack of respect for me. If I find anything in future, I will destroy it.

Plus, I absolutely agree with Maybell's suggested approach... Tx

Last edited by Toots; 03/16/15 01:11 PM.
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