well i asked h to take some time to sort himself out. rec. an earful from h in that M is essesntially my fault. h did have valid points (that i had previously validated btw). cant remember details (??) now - I do feel sad by it all. I knwo that it is best at this point for us to be seaparate, take breather & sort things out. But I do feel awful
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
